How lucky you are?

Sometimes everybody feels lonely and lost their minds. Happiness is not around. Feel very sad. Perhaps this may happens for someone to entire life for his or her. That is very sad thing to happen for anyone.  Love is never touching their heart. Always live with broken hearted.  Happiness is not much friend with them. Life feels as a misery.  Yet nobody can tell they suffer their life. They are doing well just for outside. They also pretend they do well. But their inside is flaming. Lots of honest and good people are always suffering.  Why those guys are suffering their life so much, rather than enjoying it? You may see, there are people who make laugh others well. But if you look in to their heart, most of the time their inside is mourning and they live alone.  There is a one big reason for this. Ironically, the reason is their own mindset.

This happens due to not having a chance to expose their wonderful ideas for someone or due to not having a loving association, not having a chance to reveal their desires. The worse thing is they don’t have an ability to make a close relationship with someone. As an example, suppose there is a boy who likes a girl. But he never let this know to that girl. But he is dying for this girl in his mind. There may be lots of reasons for this. Shy, fear and may be inferiority complex. All these emotions are personality issues. All those emotions come due to not having self confidence about them.  They always undervalue themselves. They think others are more powerful and attractive. And they pay over respect for others.  This thing happens to you too?

This loneliness brings to you by your own mindset.  Acknowledge your mind that, you are a handsome boy or a beautiful girl. Think that one day you gonna be rich. Remember the power, is the key for living in this world. So… More power will win easily. It’s very true for anything. It is the main fact for human evolution too. Less power always go down and down. But this power not means the physical power always, in modern era. It will be the mental power too. Look at the people who have more abilities than the normal people. They always win this world. (But same time, gaining power doing bad things make others cry. Never make your happiness on others pain.  Because,’ someday you have to pay the dues). Don’t ever, feel yourself as a looser. Recognize your potentials and follow them.   Love yourself always. Before anyone loves you, you love yourself. When you begin to love you, eventually, your mind tells you what the next step is. Think, everyone comes to this world for a purpose. And think, there’s always someone who has it worse than you! So take a look inside yourself, you’ll realize you're really blessed, No matter how inside you're blue, Find your dream love, let show them your values, Find your potential and Feel how lucky you are.

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Did love hurt you ever?

Everyone may say love hurts. Why love is hurt so much? One aspect is, it’s because you don’t really love someone, though you think, “you love someone really”. But it’s more likely, you have desire on that one and in return you feel happy in your mind regarding that. And the same time you are accepting same love (Desire) in return from other person for you. If that one failed to do so, you feel really sad. Or that one leaves you still you feel really sad. But real love means, not accepting anything. It’s only a giving. So... Real love never hurts. But desire... of course it’s really hurt.

The other aspect is, and the practical situation is, someone feels hurt in his or her heart due to another person. Wonderful thing is someone cause to another one’s hurt. And nobodies think they may cause to someone’s hurt. It means, every person hurts from someone and that person is going to hurt another one. It’s like a circle. Then everybody hurts at a certain point. Further, our quantity of love is depending on the person we love. Sometime though we have a good partner, if we met new one who makes more feelings in our mind, we may go after that person, leave existing. and we make the pain in that person's heart easily. So...That same thing may happen on us again. Then we will get hurt too. That’s why everybody gets hurt due to love, at some point. As mentioned before, this is like a circle.

When we love someone truly and deeply, we believe, our life means our love. On that base, if one person does something wrong to another, it’ll greatly effect to our life. Sometime if we do just love or merely love, it may not much effect to us, hurt is depending on, how much you do love for a person. Always more love is more pain. Less love or fake love gives less pain. And there is another way too. Suppose there is a couple who are in love truly and madly for each other. But due to some minor reason(s) one is just leaving from other and goes with someone else. It’s really hurt, but it’s a fake love. Why do get hurt about fake love? No needs to worry about fake love. We must understand that, if someone leaves us for nothing, we should let them go. It’s because if someone not care about us, why should we care about them?

So think to yourself, real love means, giving without accepting. You will never feel a pain in this way. Real love never makes hurt in your heart, but desire does.  

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Have you ever felt loneliness?

Have you ever felt loneliness? Generally nobody likes to be alone, but we all feel lonely at one time or the other in our life time. So the solution for the loneliness is “the Love”. Love keeps us alive. Love will chase the loneliness away from us.
 
Sometime, we feel full of loneliness in our mind, and sad about us, even when we are with our closest friends we feel, we alone. It’s killing us. It’s because, though we are with our friends, in physically, our mind is alone. Mind needs some accompany always. To express what it thinks or to express what it feels. To rely on somebody who can trust madly. Doing that, mind could release its paining weight.

Naturally, we have a desire to express or give/share our feelings with others. And the same time we like to have some attention from other peoples too. When we have happy moment or a sad moment we need a person to share all of these emotions.  It’s very easy to do that if we have a person who love and care about us. The only way we could chase the loneliness is to have somebody who care about us, who love us madly.

I give a good example in the society: some lonely people are doing social works, writing books or sonnets even caring about animals. They need some work to get engage in all the time.  In that way they could release their lonely feelings from their minds. And it’s a good thing to minimize the loneliness; otherwise, long time loneliness could be a mental disorder. Not only that, loneliness could lead to antisocial behaviors, Alcoholism and drug abuse or even to the Depression and suicide. But when love comes to the lonely life, loneliness will disappear.

So find the love and Love someone truly and be loved.

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